Remember these things when going down on him and you’ll end up blowing his mind.
1. You Don't Have To Do What People Do In Porn
Sure it’s fun to experiment once in a while, but not everything in porn is actually as pleasurable as it looks.
When in doubt, ask and listen to feedback.
Keep in mind that in porn, positions, tricks and other moves are often selected by directors and producers because they look visually enticing. And porn actors are just actors.
In short, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re easy to do in real or should even be attempted.
2. Not Every One Likes Being Deepthroated — Unless He's Into That
In porn, deepthroating is commonplace but it definitely comes with some risks.
Once again, don’t feel pressured to imitate what you see on film. Deepthroating often activates your gag reflex and the sound isn’t always pleasurable.
That said, don’t feel pressured to do it either!
3. No Comments, Please
When you’re giving someone a blowjob for the first time, it’s not always necessary to give comments about the size of his member.
After all, how often do we accept compliments ourselves… right? Skip the awkward chit chat and go right straight to it.
4. It Isn't Just About Sucking
Learn to use your hands and tongue to turn it from boring to mind-blowing.
5. No Teeth... Ever
Unless he likes it, try to steer clear from using your teeth when going down on him.
6. Be Enthusiastic
Men are visual creatures (there’s a reason more men watch porn than women) so if you’re not enthusiastic about going down on him, he won’t find it as enjoyable as you think he would.
7. Not Particularly Expressive? Eye Contact Is Great Too
Just about every article and forum we’ve read pertaining to oral sex on a man, includes this very nifty trick. So, why should this be any different?
8. Don't Rush It
You might think that the faster you go, the better.
But that isn’t always true. If a man wanted to finish quickly, he would have chosen solo masturbation above anything else.
While going down on him, take your time and enjoy the process.
9. Don't Give Up If He Takes Longer To Finish
Many tend to think that getting a man to finish during oral sex is a lot faster than penetrative sex. This isn’t true at all.
Besides, the only reason men tend to be able to finish faster when they are masturbating is because they’re used to their hands and know exactly what to do with their member.
10. If You Can't Swallow, Don't Force It And Don't Comment About Its Taste
Just about every article and forum on Reddit discussing oral sex thinks it’s sexy when a woman swallows but it isn’t always necessary.
In fact, if you’re not a huge fan of swallowing, by all means, don’t. However, it’s best not to be rude about it.
Prepare some tissues and spit it out but don’t make comments about how it tastes or how it smells.