Honest, trustworthy and determined, Oxen are the quiet achievers of the Chinese horoscope system. If you are an Ox, you don’t need to be the center of attention. And you don’t waste time trying to sell yourself with empty words—you prefer to gain recognition through actual hard work. You think logically, make a great leader, and put your heart into everything you do. No wonder people who know the real you, really admire you.
If you’re an Ox, you rarely lose your temper, but when you do, it’s legendary! Your determination and caring nature are great, but don’t try to rescue everyone. You don’t have to fix the world—sometimes it’s enough to be you, and in the moment. And that’s especially true in bed.
This being said, your quiet confidence can tip over into arrogance—you know what you like and this means it’s your way or the highway, at times. This year, why not let your lover lead in bed now and then? You don’t have to do the heavy lifting all the time.
Standing Doggy Style
Flip the script on regular doggy style—he kneels on the edge of the bed and you bend over so he can enter you from behind.
You can’t touch each other as much as you could have with the regular doggy position, but if you keep your legs close together you can increase the friction (this also makes him feel bigger). Alternatively, brace your arms against a wall or table so you can push back to increase or decrease the depth of his thrusts.
Oxen can totally see the appeal in familiar moves, so this is a nice mix of the familiar and the unexpected. (And you don’t have to be crazy yoga-flexible to do it.)
Lie on your side and lift your upper leg so you’re making an L-shape with your body. Your man gets on his knees and straddles your lower leg.
He can touch you all over, and this new angle gives you a new way of feeling each other. As a bonus, you can reach down and touch yourself, or press your clitoris against his thigh or pelvic bone for more stimulation.
Chinese Horoscope Signs Compatible With Ox
Rats and Oxen hold the same goals in life and enjoy the contrasts in their personalities. Warm and romantic Snakes help Oxen relax and enjoy life. Oxen also get on well with soft and loving Roosters.