In the time of Covid-19, isolation and social distancing are commonplace as countries across the world make continued efforts to slow down the outbreak. The world is going through a collective traumatic experience, and though there are some who are staying with loved ones, there are also many who are home alone in isolation.
Amongst economic and social effects, this pandemic also has radical implications towards mental health. A few months ago, The Lancet published its findings on the psychological impact of quarantine and how the coronavirus disease will have an effect on rising mental health concerns like anxiety, depression, insomnia, and irritability, to name a few.
The reality is that humans are social beings and living in isolation can not only disrupt our regular routine, but also our mental health. We’ve listed down seven ways you can stay connected and prioritise your wellbeing during this time of isolation.
You may not know it, but your houseplants can provide therapeutic effects that can help reduce stress and help work through trauma. Studies have shown that “gardening can act as therapy for people who have undergone trauma”. Specifically, the act of nurturing something, even if it is as small as a simple houseplant, can be an effective way to work through traumatic events. Taking care of indoor plants can also help with stress, something that everyone is feeling plenty of during this time.
If you currently have a houseplant, try to give it some extra attention during this period. As shown with studies, taking small breaks throughout the day to check up on your plants may be a good way to reduce work-related stress. It may be difficult to find plant shops that are open, but you can still order seeds or use seeds from common produce.
For instance, you can plant some seeds from veggies you already consume, like bell peppers, tomatoes, and chili padi. You can also create a makeshift veggie garden with carrot tops, onions with their roots still attached, and lettuce, by simply letting them float on a small amount of water on a flat surface.
Take a look at some of the hardiest houseplants you can grow at home.
With a 24-hour news cycle that seems to constantly focus on the current pandemic, many people have started to feel high levels of anxiety. To give yourself some much needed mental respite, scientists and researchers suggest limiting your exposure to them and only consume news from credible news outlets.
Lauretta Breuning, author of Habits of a Happy Brain recommends setting aside one block of time each day for news consumption, for instance, at lunch or before dinner, and not reading the news before bed. By doing so, you won’t be ruminating over misinformation and will not feel anxious throughout the day with a constant feed of negative information. The World Health Organisation also recommends spreading positive stories about Covid-19 (ex: survival, community support), rather than focusing on deaths and infection rates.
One of the most harmful things to a person’s mental health is isolation. Social isolation, even if it’s perceived, can have debilitating effects on your psyche. With the current circuit breaker and quarantine measures, people may be experiencing varying degrees of depression and anxiety associated with being separated from their family and friends. But at the end of the day, humans are social creatures. Face-to-face interaction helps us become more resilient to stress and helps prevent mental decline.
While we can’t meet up with friends and family like we used to, we can still maintain communication with them via calls, texts, and video chats. You can do virtual activities together like yoga, cooking, or play games on apps like House Party, which allows you to connect with your friends, chat, or play with them via video. If you don’t live with your parents, call them regularly to check in on them. Keeping communication with loved ones going will help everyone involved feel less alone.
Studies have shown that “exercise improves mental health by reducing anxiety, depression, and negative mood”, due to dopamine released during physical activity and increased blood circulation to the brain. Even if you can’t go to the gym or yoga studio anymore, you can still keep your fitness regime using free yoga and fitness videos on YouTube as a guide for your workouts.
You can also try adding meditation alongside exercise. In a review of multiple clinical trials, meditation reduces psychological stress, anxiety and can reduce the risk of stress-related health problems. To have a calmer mind and better sleep as you wind down the day, meditate with apps like Stop Breathe & Think, Headspace, Calm, Inscape or via Zoom with a guided meditation.
Try this fun “toilet paper workout” everyone’s doing at home.
For those who enjoy it, cooking and baking is a form of meditation and stress relief. Therapists have even been using cooking as a part of therapy for anxiety, depression, and other psychological problems. Focusing on a mindful task like chopping and measuring of ingredients during cooking and baking takes the mind off unwanted thoughts and gives people a sense of control. The delicious end result of the process also gives people a sense of accomplishment.
If you don’t cook, now it can be a good time to learn a useful survival skill so you can reduce going out to buy takeaway food. As a beginner, you can watch quarantine cooking shows or use online videos as a guide. You’ll be surprised at what you can produce even without much experience.
Right now, it’s easy to fall into a pit of anxiety and despair. After all, your routine was uprooted, you may be isolated from your friends and family and you may have lost your livelihood. However, there are ways you can manage this anxiety and stress by changing the way you think about the current situation.
First, it is prudent to your emotions. Whether you are feeling anxious, sad, irritable or stressed, you should note that all of your emotions are valid. When you accept that it’s normal to feel these emotions, you become more mentally resilient, rather than giving in to the emotion. This goes hand in hand with being compassionate with yourself and others. It’s normal to get frustrated with yourself and your family members, but be patient as everyone is going through a rough time.
It is also important that you don’t beat yourself up over a lack of productivity. If you are currently working from home, you’ll notice that you may feel unproductive, restless or lacking focus. This is normal.
Do the best you can and create small, attainable goals for yourself. For instance, follow a routine, plan a budget and learn one new thing per day. Increase feelings of safety by making a contingency plan should you get sick and ensure you have enough health coverage. Feeling like you are back in control can help eliminate feelings of anxiety.
For some, a simple change in thinking may be just the thing they need to get over mental slumps. For others, starting an activity and actively working on their mental health may be more suitable. However, for a substantial group of people, consistent therapy may be required.
Keep the younger and older members of your family in mind as well. Children and young adults are experiencing drastic chemical changes alongside this pandemic, which can increase feelings of anxiety and depression. The elderly may experience higher rates of anxiety, agitation and stress—especially if they’re in isolation. In some cases, at-home mental health management may not be enough.
If you find yourself or a loved one suffering from an unmanageable mental health issue, do seek help from health helplines like SOS (Samaritans of Singapore), Singapore Association for Mental Health (SAMH), or Touch Line.
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Text: ValueChampion Editorial Team/Value Champion, Additional reporting: Farisia Thang