In good times, when the money is rolling and the paycheque is received on a regular basis, we tend to spend without a second thought. Be it a shopping spree at the mall, eating out at every meal or booking a pampering treatment at the spa, we just splurge without thinking twice.
However, with the shadow of a recession looming overhead, tightening the purse strings seems to be the prudent thing to do. We begin to question the things we have taken for granted. In uncertain times, it is even more imperative to keep a firmer handle on our dollars and cents.
That said, while saving for a rainy day is important, so does living a quality life that is both balanced and meaningful. Life is dynamic, which is why we also need to spend a little as part of a healthy existence. The question is how to do so wisely – and who better to ask than financial experts themselves?
Keep scrolling to find out what these financial gurus really spend and save on, be it in good times or bad.
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When it comes to choosing when to spend or save, Lynette Lim, Director and Co-CEO of PhillipCapital Inc of the US operations of the PhillipCapital Group, says she makes decisions based on the economic principle of trade-off.
“That means not buying a one-time-use item, for instance. When I think of the trade-off like spoiling the environment with all that plastic, it makes me less interested in buying it,” she explains. “My family and I are adopting more conscious decisions when making purchases. We want to be more environmentally conscious. That means only buying something we will use, and not just because it is cheap.”
For Cassandra Wee, Head of Insurance at SingSaver, her rule of thumb is to spend only on necessities and save on luxuries.
“My decision-making process is usually governed by determining if it is a ‘need’ or ‘want’. If this is a ‘want’, can I afford it without compromising my budget?” she shares. “My friends often joke that I am the most boring person in the group – I do not get excited about the newest restaurants, cafes or luxury bags. In fact, on my birthday, I buy myself retirement and life protection plans because I know these will provide for me long-term.”
For those with families, children add another level of expenses to be mindful of. When planning the family finances with kids in mind, Lynette says there are two “buckets” to consider.
“The ‘Everyday Living Expenses’ bucket includes food, clothing and current education, while the ‘Future Expenses’ bucket is for university fees,” explains Lynette, who is mum to two young kids. “For my family, we have already started two trading accounts primarily for my kids’ future education fund.”
Valerie Tan, Head of Business Risk Management at a global bank, who also has two kids, agrees that tertiary education expenses is one of the key essentials on her list when considering the financial plan for her family.
“Tertiary education expenses will increase over time,” says Valerie. “It is a huge sum of money, especially if the kids do not make it into a local university. That would mean going overseas, where there will be no subsidies, not to mention the cost of living overseas as well.”
That is why investing in university fund insurance policies for her children is a priority. She also reviews the family’s insurance needs every few years “to account for changes, especially when financial circumstances change,” she says.
Besides education, hospital insurance is also important, adds Valerie, because “it gives you the flexibility to choose the best specialist when there are urgent operations involved.”
Even in tough times, we need to continue to nurture the things that matter to us, be it intellectually or socially.
- Books
“I never stop buying books,” says Lynette. “I used to borrow books from the library and realised that the trade-off for buying a book versus borrowing a book is the amount of time I spend going to the library compared to the actual cost of buying the book. It wasn’t that much in the grand scheme of things.”
- Quality family time
For Valerie, investing in quality time with her husband and two kids is priceless and worth every penny.
“I would spend on holidays as it builds memories and creates family bonding time,” she says. “Of course, if I were jobless with no income, I would be more careful with spending the money.”
Similarly, Cassandra says she will spend on her family, including eating out at restaurants, taking overseas trips and investing in their insurance plans.
“However, we must still make conscious decisions according to our budget and finance,” cautions Cassandra. “In the recent months, for example, I have reviewed my credit card, handphone and insurance plans, and made suitable adjustments. Prior to making a decision, I will always do due diligence by comparing various plans. I also give myself a timeline to make a decision so that I do not procrastinate.”
To avoid spending unnecessarily, Lynette says she has stopped certain subscriptions, such as Amazon Prime because “it made it so easy to buy things and have instant gratification,” she confesses. “Unsubscribing lessens the urge to buy on impulse and you try to only buy what you need.”
Cassandra admits that while it is easy to plan a budget, sticking to one can be much harder. However, she says, there are simple things you can do to prevent impulse buys, such as planning your purchases ahead of time and lowering your credit limit.
To pass on practical knowledge on how to manage money, Valerie trains her kids to allocate their allowance or cash gifts into three “buckets”:
Savings 75-80%
Giving 5-10%
Spending 10-20%
“I do not pay for any toys except for birthday presents and books,” says Valerie. “My kids have to use their own spending money to buy things or toys that they like, be it in Singapore or when we are on vacation.”
When we think about saving, making deposits into a bank account comes to mind. But there are other ways to save – and that is, by making your dollar stretch and go a longer way, be it via discounts or cashback.
“I wait for the item I want to go on sale and I also stock up on things like household cleaners or personal hygiene products when the sale is on,” says Valerie.
Looking for deals is definitely a good way to save, but Cassandra has another piece of advice about finding savings where you least expect it.
“People generally do their research for big purchases, but they neglect how cost savings on everyday purchases can add up over time,” she points out. “One way is to use appropriate credit cards that tie in with your lifestyle. For example, those who spend a lot of money on groceries should find a credit card that offers cashback on such purchases. If you eat out often, use cards that provide dining perks.”
It is easier to lose your wealth than to build it. However, in times of uncertainty, protecting your health and wealth is more important than building wealth. That is why Cassandra says it is paramount to account for the amount of debt or installment payments you have to pay off before making any major financial decisions.
Valerie agrees. “Being debt-free is very appealing. If I were to lose my job, I would not have to stress out so much as I have no debts.”
“This pandemic has made us all rethink our financial priorities,” says Cassandra, “and there is no better time to review your spending behaviour and invest in protecting your future.”
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Text: Annabel Middleton