Research has shown that some women in their 20s still don’t know where their clitoris is and in turn, can’t bring themselves to an orgasm. 

However, it could also be because your partner doesn’t know how your body works either. 

So, communication is key here. If he doesn’t know where or how your body works, show him without judgment. 

Continuous and consistent rhythms can help women reach orgasms faster and easier. 

So, the next time you’re in a position that feels good, communicate with your partner and let them know you’d like to stay in that position for a little while longer. 

Unlike men, women need a little while longer to get excited and in turn, relax enough to have an orgasm. 

The next time this happens, make it a point to relax and spend time doing some foreplay. It’ll help you relax and get you in the mood to have sex. 

Often times, it’s hard to fully enjoy sex when you’ve had a long day at work but the next time you’re attempting to have a romantic time with your other half, make it a point to disconnect from stress and work.