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How To Motivate Your Child To Study, According To Experts

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How To Motivate Your Child To Study, According To Experts

As school is set to reopen, here are ways to get your child to study and set the foundation for the year ahead

December 27, 2020

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Because Singapore goes by a merit-based system, examinations inevitably become a stressful and tense period for both the child and the parents. But preparation comes before exams in the form of studying, revising and reinforcing what has been taught in school. If you’ve ever wondered how to get your child to study, or have problems getting them motivated, read on for some expert advice.

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How To Motivate Your Child To Study, According To Experts
Manage The Stress
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“It’s more difficult to be a kid now than it was 10, 20 years ago,” says Eric Jensen, a leading educator in the US and the author of books such as Brain-Based Learning & Teaching.

“The ultimate answer to learning effectively would be to teach kids how to regulate their own stress so ultimately, they become more capable human beings.”

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Break Down Learning And Build Associations
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Break down important information into small chunks, and teach with a little humour and fun.

“I think it’s also really important to build on prior learning in kids. When they learn something new, build an association with something they’ve already learnt so it makes sense,” says Eric.

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Don't Worry About Grades
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As radical as it sounds, “When your kid’s 30, no one’s going to ask him what his grades were in school,” says Eric.

“Parents in Singapore always want to know how much content their child amassed today to pass the test. Children go to school to train their minds to be curious and develop it so they are prepared for life after school.

“What parents often fail to recognise is that the number one factor to kids doing well in life is not grades or IQ. It’s effort. Second is, people skills. Schools don’t usually teach those.”

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Reassure Your Child
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Tell your child school and its activities are really about them developing life skills and that they only need the content temporarily, is Eric’s advice.

“Children need to know it’s OK if they don’t get it all so they don’t get all depressed about school and work. Tell them ‘we want you to do well in tests but these tests are not your life.”

Support them in different ways, he adds. “Some kids study better if they had someone to study with. You can have his friend over but insist that by a certain time, both must accomplish this and that. If they don’t, you won’t do this again. It’s really important for parents to allow social learning.”

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Don't Just Focus On What Your Child Is Good At
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A child who’s never played a musical instrument will never know if he has any musical talent so strengthen what your child is good at but never limit opportunities for exposure, says Eric.

“Some parents say their child is a visual learner so they have him do what he likes to do visually and forget about auditory discoveries such as music lessons, which is a mistake.

“Many people who play an instrument, for example, are visual learners because in their minds they see their hands, the notes and they interact with the entire experience. You never know. Sometimes your child picks something up and you’ll be surprised by what he can do.”

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Let Your Child Teach You
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Instead of asking your child what he learnt in school today, follow the lead of the parents of physicist Richard Feynman, a Nobel Prize winner. They asked him: “How many questions did you ask today?”

Encourage your child to be curious so he’s interested in learning and accumulating facts wherever he goes.

If he doesn’t get the answers he wants, encourage him to ask the question differently. Ask your child to explain simple things around the house, in nature, in science and in the news. “This allows parents to find the gaps in the child’s thought process.”

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Teach Without Really Teaching
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“If you make it about schoolwork, kids don’t like it,” Eric says. Encourage learning by exposing kids to things and places way above them.

“It’s really important to take a young child to places that are difficult for them to understand such as a science museum so they ask as many as questions as they can. Even if you can’t answer it, just them asking is worth a lot.”

Since kids generally don’t like their textbooks, leave the most interesting books related to the subject lying around the house. No matter how disinterested a child may be in learning, there will be something in there he likes.

“What we try to develop as parents are life skills such as curiosity, paying attention, processing information and working hard. If a school doesn’t do that, find a passion your kid is curious about and temporarily let that be their school.

“For some kids, playing video games gets them interested in becoming a computer programmer which in turn, teaches their brain how to pay attention, how to sequence, how to process things, how to think critically and how to do error correction. All of which are really important life skills.

“Over time, they’ll be able to transfer those skills to school skills so they do well enough to get through school without being incompetent or dropping out. If you haven’t found what your child is interested in then you need to expose him to more things until he finally says: ‘That’s what I like.’”

This article was first published in Young Parents. 

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