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World Sleep Day: 5 Millennial Mums On How They Get Better Sleep For Themselves and Bubs

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World Sleep Day: 5 Millennial Mums On How They Get Better Sleep For Themselves and Bubs

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by Victoria Tan  /   March 17, 2023
World Sleep Day: 5 Millennial Mums Share How They Get Better Zzz’s (For Themselves and Bubs) 

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It’s no secret that parents – especially mothers – struggle with sleep deprivation, especially when their children are very young. As a first-time mother of a 6-month-old baby who is still breastfeeding, I, too, struggle to get a good night’s sleep. While my baby is generally a good sleeper and is able to sleep six to seven hours at a stretch, he does go through occasional bouts of sleep regression where he wakes up every other hour, crying and needing attention. Even on “normal” nights, he wakes up at least once to nurse and in need of a diaper change, which interrupts my sleep. 

While most parents of young children have resigned themselves to getting less sleep, it’s actually crucial to one’s health to squeeze in as much shuteye as possible. Long-term sleep deprivation can lead to increased stress levels, irritability and anxiety as well as chronic health issues such as heart disease, kidney disease, high blood pressure and stroke. 

As we celebrate World Sleep Day on 17 March, we speak to five millennial mothers and how they ensure they get the rest they need (and deserve!) 

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World Sleep Day: 5 Millennial Mums On How They Get Better Sleep For Themselves and Bubs
"Giving my son one-on-one time calms him down"
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“When my son was still a newborn, I used to have very fitful sleeps as I kept waking up just to check if he was breathing. I was constantly anxious – every little sound would wake me up. It was also exhausting having to breastfeed him every couple of hours, especially when he was sick and took a longer time to feed. After my maternity leave ended and I had to go back to work, it was a whole new level of tiredness. I was still waking up every few hours to breastfeed and was barely functional in the day. Now that he’s older and weaned from breastfeeding, he’s sleeping through the night and I am able to catch a full six to seven hours of sleep.

I’ve noticed that when my son spends a lot of time outdoors playing, running around and riding his bike, he falls asleep much more easily at night. I also see how it’s important to him that we spend quality time together each day – just the two of us – as it seems to calm him and give him closure as the day winds down. As for myself, I try to meditate before bed and catch an early bedtime so that I feel more refreshed the next day.”

– Petra Rakusic, 35, sales development representative, mum of a 22-month-old

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"A glass of water before bed, helps lessen the feelings of tiredness"
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“I’ve been co-sleeping with both of my children ever since my first child was born nine years ago. They would wake up several times a night to nurse or just to move closer to me, burrowing their hands and feet under my body, which is sweet but it makes it hard to sleep properly. It was difficult to wean them off co-sleeping when they got older; they only started sleeping through the night about three months ago. It helps that they share a room as I think having their sibling there gives them the confidence to sleep independently. Now that they are able to fall asleep without me, I have a bit more time in the evenings to indulge in self-care. My tip for a good night’s rest? I drink a glass of water before going to bed so I don’t wake up dehydrated, which makes the tiredness feel worse.”

– Lydia Cheong, 39, stay-at-home mum, mum of a 9-year-old and a 4-year-old

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"Plenty of outdoor time helps my son sleep better at night"
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“My son goes to bed at about 11pm (very late, I know!) and he wakes up at least once in the middle of the night to breastfeed. To minimise disruption to my sleep, I would nurse him in the side-lying position so that I can steal a few more winks. As it’s hard for me to get much rest on weekdays, I try to catch up on sleep on the weekends and relax by doing things I enjoy, such as watching videos or getting a facial treatment. I also try to help my son get a better night’s sleep by making sure he expends as much energy as possible in the day by playing outdoors .”

– Sharon Seow, 35, teacher, mum of a 4-year-old

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"I tag team with my husband on weekends to catch up on sleep"
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“I never used to be a morning person and enjoyed sleeping in – especially on weekends. However, ever since I’ve had a baby, I’ve learned to function on accumulative sleep versus continuous sleep. My baby is now beginning to sleep through the night, and if we get her to bed between 7.45pm to 8pm, she’ll sleep through until 6.30am. It’s not clockwork though. The moment the routine changes, like when we spend the day out, when she skips a nap, or when we have visitors over during her bedtime routine, she’ll wake up once or twice after midnight. So we aim for the routine for everyone’s sake while also accepting that life happens.

During the week, my partner and I try to give each other time to do things that make us happy, like hobbies or meeting friends. On weekends, we keep one day completely free of plans and social obligations. On these plan-less days, one naps when baby naps, while the other stands by for when baby wakes so the napping parent can continue sleeping. And whoever has had the most broken sleep during the week can (attempt to) sleep in on our plan-less day.”

– Tasha Andersen, 33, product designer, mum of a 6-month-old

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"My daughters share a room and comfort each other in the night"
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“Since they were babies, my daughters would go to bed at about 7.30pm and sleep till about 7am the next day. However, they would wake up several times in the night and because I used to share a bedroom with them, my sleep would also be disturbed. It was very tiring and I would often feel bleary the next day. I’ve recently started getting them to share a room so they can reach out for each other when they wake up instead of looking for me or my husband. Of course, the flip side of that is that if one wakes up, she’s likely to wake her sister up too! Now that they’re less reliant on me, I am able to catch a full night’s sleep and have enough energy in the morning to hit the gym. Sweating it out is one of my favourite ways to de-stress and keep my energy levels up so I can be more present for my girls.”

– Goh Yi Ning, 36, stay-at-home mum, mum of a 6-year-old and a 4-year-old

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