It’s no secret that bringing up children in Singapore is a costly affair. With the price tag of raising a child from birth till they graduate from university pegged at anything from $200,000 to $1 million, it’s enough to make any potential parent baulk.
However, as any money-savvy parent will tell you, there are ways to cut corners and stretch your dollar. If you’re planning to welcome a new addition to the family, here are some tried-and-tested tips to make your money work harder for you.
Before I started planning for a family, I used to shy away from secondhand items for myriad reasons. I was too bewitched by the allure of “new and shiny” and was afraid that anything that wasn’t brand new would be “old and dirty”. However, with a new baby on the way, the entire household budget had to be overhauled and I started to explore the world of pre-loved items, beginning with online marketplace, Carousell.
My Carousell journey started tentatively – I first bought a couple of brand new, unworn onesies that were going for cheap. When I saw how easy (and economical) it was, I soon ventured into buying bigger items such as a changing table and a portable car seat. For example, I bought a brand new Nuna PIPA Next car seat (retailing for $469) at just $300. For larger items, my husband and I make it a point to go down in person to inspect the product before making payment. In the case of the car seat, the owner’s baby was not a fan of being strapped in so the item was practically un-used. With Carousell’s nifty features, it’s easy to filter out “Well used” or even “Used” items and find items still in great condition. Even better, I could filter sellers based on their location so I could save on transport or delivery fees. Win!
Apart from online marketplaces, I also highly encourage mummies-to-be to join virtual support groups such as those on Facebook, Telegram or WhatsApp. There are general support groups for new mums such as Stork’s Nest Singapore and BumpWise Community on Facebook and Babysteps Community on Telegram as well as specific groups based on your child’s birth year or even birth month such as 2022 SG Mummies Support Group on Facebook and 2022 SG Mummies on Telegram.
Not only do these online communities offer mums a safe space to share their experiences and seek advice, there are also opportunities to buy, sell or swap baby items. For example, ever since joining these groups, I’ve never had to buy diapers from a store because there would always be a mum who bought extra packs and was selling them at a fraction of the retail price. A pack of 64 diapers retails at about $14.10 but I’ve found sellers willing to let go of unopened packs for as low as $6 per pack. With newborns going through an average of over 2,000 diapers in their first year alone, the amount of savings over time is exponential.
After I announced my pregnancy, friends and acquaintances alike plied me with offers of pre-loved clothes, cribs, strollers and baby carriers – all still in good condition. While the design of the items may not necessarily have been my first choice, it hardly mattered when I added up the amount of money I was saving. A brand new crib or stroller would have set me back a few thousand dollars at least, and the money saved was put to better use such as investing in a low-cost index fund to save for my child’s education needs.
As mentioned above, raising a child in Singapore is a costly affair, especially when you factor in the cost of tertiary education. A local university course typically starts from $40,000 for a four-year programme while overseas education can hit upwards of $200,000. This does not even take into account the rising cost of education; these prices will certainly be much higher by the time my baby is ready for university. This is why I’ve started setting aside $300 every month into a fund that offers a minimum of 4.75% rate of return. That works out to be about $85,000 in 20 years and over $130,000 in 30 years.
The further I ventured into the world of pre-loved, the more I realised how wrong I was to turn my nose up at secondhand items. In this consumerist society we live in where we buy (and throw) things with dizzying nonchalance, the amount of waste that gets accumulated is staggering. There’s zero shame – in fact, plenty of advantages – in going the pre-loved route. If you’re a new mum looking to cut costs and reduce waste, hopefully this article will inspire you!
Victoria Tan is a new mother-of-one navigating the weird and wonderful journey that is parenthood. Even amidst the sleep deprivation, breastfeeding woes and endless diaper changes, she’s finding joy in rediscovering the world through her son’s eyes.