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Feeling More Stressed Than Blessed? Singapore Women Share Their Best Work-Life Balance Tips

Feeling stressed at work? Unlock the key to a happy life with tips on how to take better care of yourself from women who are at the top of their game.

by Natalya Molok  /   March 28, 2019

In Singapore, women often measure success by how busy or stressed we are. More often than not, many of us will live by the mantra, ‘the busier, the better’ because we think it means we’re being productive.

Throw in being stressed out and always on the go, and you can see why this life we’re setting up for ourselves is unfulfilling and unsustainable. If your days are starting to feel crammed with activity and there’s no space to reflect and take stock, then maybe it’s time to try becoming ‘unbusy’.

What is this? It’s learning to take care of yourself and giving yourself time to prioritise practices like eating well, exercising and getting enough sleep. It’s a difficult concept to wrap our heads around because there’s a sense of underlying privilege associated with taking time for yourself these days.

But being ‘unbusy’ doesn’t mean doing nothing. It simply means taking the time to just be you so you can live a happier and calmer life. Don’t know where to begin? Gain some insight on exactly how to step away from being busy all the time with advice from four women who are living their best life:

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Feeling More Stressed Than Blessed? Singapore Women Share Their Best Work-Life Balance Tips
Be Mindful Of Indulgence
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“We are what we eat,” affirms Dr Pei Ying Sim, a nutritionist who co-founded her own wholesome snack brand, Myola Foods, so that she could help people make better food choices.

A big advocate of cooking for herself instead of eating out, Dr Pei Ying stresses that being mindful of what you put into your body is the first step to leading a cleaner, leaner life.

“A balanced diet can best be achieved when I cook at home. My background in nutrition has helped me to always be conscious of what I consume. I pick foods that are natural; without added sugar and unnecessary preservatives,” she explains.

“My diet is comprised of nutrient-dense foods such as vegetables, fruits, nuts, seeds, and high protein grains. As for drinks, I mostly hydrate with water, herbal teas, and fresh coconut juice.”

Getting enough sleep, which she says most people take for granted, also takes a place of great importance for the good doctor who tries to get at least eight hours of shut eye so she can give her body the rest it craves.

Meditation, too, plays a big part in helping her to keep life simple, happy and healthy.

“Just like brushing my teeth, meditation is my daily practice of being grateful and expressing gratitude. Every day I list three things that I am grateful for. Some days I feel grateful for the simplest thing such as being alive and breathing. Most days, I thank the sun for always giving and that brings a smile to my face,” says the 33-year-old wellness advocate.

“At the end of the day, we are all here for a purpose and life is a journey of discovery. Every moment becomes a memory and we have every minute to be grateful for, every hour to choose what’s best for us and every day to transform our life.”

Nurture Yourself and Others
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Health, once lost, can never be regained. A person who knows this all too well is Dr Felicia Tan, a breast specialist at FeM Surgery, who can’t stress the importance of taking care of one’s body enough.

“Regular health screenings are a must because prevention is always better than find a cure for a disease. The average adult needs to get checked at least once a year to keep track of their health status and address any deviations from the norm. In most cases, metabolic diseases can be addressed with a simple change in diet or lifestyle rather than medications,” says the medical surgeon.

“Any disease detected in in the infancy stage is more easily treated with good outcomes compared to advanced stages. At my practice in MacPherson, we offer several tiers of comprehensive health screening packages at affordable prices to encourage patients to come forward to get their health checked. There is simply no excuse not to get screened.”

Along with regular check-ups, Dr Felicia is committed to finding small but practical ways to connect with others and spread positivity.

“Do things that add to the benefit of others or yourself. You will find that in giving, one receives even more in unexpected ways,” says the 40-year-old, who practices what she preaches with the FeM Angels, a group of doctors who go overseas to carry out health checks on communities in developing countries.

“Think of what you are doing every day and find ways to impact another life through your actions, but be prepared to expect obstacles and challenges in everything you do as well. By having this mindset, I don’t see a problem as a problem. Instead, I see it as a challenge waiting to be tackled.”

Practice Presence
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After a debilitating shoulder injury in 2015 forced Elvina Cheong to turn to surgery, she began her yoga journey as a form of rehabilitation and hasn’t looked back since.

“I make sure I sweat daily! Starting my day by working up a good sweat gives me clarity and helps me focus better. It rids my body of all the stagnant energy that has built up overnight,” says the certified yoga teacher, who founded three buzzy Freedom Yoga studios, with the most recent one opening its doors just last year at Amoy Street.

“Another tip I live by is not jam-packing my schedule. It’s so easy to keep saying yes to things and suddenly finding yourself bogged down with tasks. Instead, I limit my days to not having more than three big ticket items to tend to, and making sure I have some ‘me’ time. It’s something I still struggle with as a business owner, mom to my fur kids, daughter, friend, and teacher, but that I’m trying to get better at.”

The communications degree graduate affirms that quiet time is essential in boosting her overall happiness quotient.

“I like to either, sit in silence and focus on my breath, or journal to reflect and gain more insight to help me understand myself and my growth better,” she reveals.

“I also put both my personal and work phone away once I’ve gotten home and showered. This allows me to be more present with my loved ones, pets, and myself.”

Identifying what brings her joy also helps lift Elvina out of a funk whenever she feels bogged down with too much work stress, saying that for it’s the simple things that bring a smile to her face like, “My favourite people, food like mala that I absolutely love, yoga, reading and my fur kids.”

Sweat It Out
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As a fitness industry disruptor, Payal Kadakia of ClassPass, unsurprisingly loves to pepper her week with multiple workouts that leave her feeling energised.

The first thing the 35-year-old CEO and start-up founder does to power up her morning involves her smartphone, saying, “As an entrepreneur, the first thing I do is check my email and quickly answer any urgent messages.”

But after that’s done and dusted, instead of reaching for a cup of coffee to kick-start her day, she goes for a 30-minute run – or if time is really not on her side – squeezes in a 10-minute core workout at home.

“Even when things get really busy at the office, I’ll always find the time to go for a midday or evening class just so I can get my creative juices flowing,” she explains.

“When I need to let go of some steam while thinking about any big meetings or decisions I have to make, I’ll put on some Bollywood music and just dance. I started training in Indian classical dance and folk dancing when I was three-years-old and it has always been one of my passions.”

It was her love of dance that lead to her light-bulb idea of starting ClassPass, a nearly half a billion dollar start up that makes exercise easy and accessible.

“I wanted to help others find what I found in dance. I also love helping other people live their best lives, that’s one of the biggest reasons I started ClassPass! I get so much out of helping other people achieve their goals,” says the gutsy entrepreneur.

“With the busyness that can surround our days, health and wellness can feel difficult to prioritise, but it’s a big source of happiness so my best advice is to get active.”

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