The crisis of Covid-19 has introduced a lot of uncertainty, and this pandemic may have prompted some to experience mental health issues for the first time. Aside from the already unnerving worry of mortality, factors like family violence, job loss, financial concerns, boredom, family tension, and isolation may all start to affect your mental health and emotional wellbeing.
Across the world, there’s been an increase in the number of calls to mental health hotlines. In Singapore alone, there have been more than 6,600 calls by the end of May since its launch in April. Over one-third of these calls were from people who required more support and were directed to counseling centres and specialised helplines.
We spoke to a counsellor and clinical psychologist and they shared their tips to help reduce stress and prioritise your mental health during this pandemic.
Dr Sara Delia Menon, Clinical Psychologist at Alliance Counselling, shares “The crisis of Covid-19 has meant uncertainty in a lot of areas. A crisis by its nature, taxes our coping resources and many of us will need additional support to restore stability and eventually a sense of normalcy. Moreover, the health pandemic adds another layer of uncertainty as this is truly unprecedented both in terms of scale and type, and raises anxiety around mortality among other things.”
Though it is good and necessary to keep updated with the news, being confronted with the negative across the world may be overwhelming. Try to find a way to strike a balance in the amount of news consumption you take in daily, especially during a global crisis. Research shows that watching negative news can cause sadness and anxiety, and even exacerbate your own personal worries even if they’re unrelated to what you’re watching.
Try to find a balance in the way you consume news, either by setting a block of time in the middle of the day (so you don’t start or end your day with it), or turning off push notifications, or even signing up for platforms that share the good news as well.
Fiona Maher O’Sullivan, Senior Counsellor & Clinical Supervisor/Counsellor at InContact Counselling & Training, stresses the importance of maintaining some form of structure that can give stability, predictability and consistency during this time where everything can feel out of control.
Routines, as mundane as they may feel, provide an anchor of predictability and this can be comforting during tumultuous times. Implementing structure across your day to day can give you a sense of control and it also comes with benefits like an improvement in productivity and focus. Stick to the routines that work best for you and be gentle with yourself if you don’t manage to keep to it, you can always adjust to what works best and tweak it as you go.
Fiona also recommends starting a gratefulness journal where you jot down things that you are grateful for, either throughout the day or at the end of the day as you wind down. The simple practice of gratitude can help enhance the mood, strengthen your emotional resilience, and reduce stress. Having a daily practice of gratitude, no matter how unfamiliar it may feel first feel, can be enriching and help lower stressful feelings or thoughts.
There are many formats or ways to go about starting a gratefulness journal. You can try to do this at night, that way you end your day on a more positive note as you recount the things that you were thankful for. You can list down as many things as you want to, or you can stick with a set number every day. As long as the practice is there, the rules are up to you.
“Be more compassionate to yourself, it’s okay to accept inconsistencies with the emotions you feel during this time. It’s all expected.” Fiona goes on to share, “Something like a pandemic is in itself a stressful event. Those with pre-existing struggles with anxiety and depression may have their situations exacerbated by the pandemic because they are flooded with negative news and updates.”
When you feel anxious, instead of rejecting that emotion and suppressing it, try to turn towards that emotion with care and kindness. When the instinct to ignore or judge your anxiety is acted upon, it only amplifies the anxiety in the long run. Instead, try exploring the anxiety and walking yourself through it. Either through meditation, journaling, or even talking out loud. Being compassionate with yourself may not feel like a natural instinct, but it starts with acknowledging your feelings of stress or anxiousness and then being curious about it.