"My Husband Is Into Pornography! What Do I Do?"

So you’ve discovered your husband likes pornography but have no idea how to deal with it. We consult three top sex and relationship therapists to find out.

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When Pamela* discovered her husband Adam* had been watching hardcore pornography on his iPad when she wasn't around, she was horrified. She'd had no idea he was into this. Didn't he find her attractive anymore? Wasn't she good enough in bed? How could he watch this nasty stuff? And worst of all, she thought, had their whole relationship been a massive lie?

Increasingly, couples are struggling with issues around pornography. It's hardly surprising. Pornography is more instantly accessible than it's ever been. Unlike pre-millennial times, when you needed a television screen connected to a VCR or DVD player to watch X-rated videos, you can now stream them anywhere, anytime.

About 80 per cent of porn consumers are men. Not all of them though are up-front with their partners about their predilection for X-rated content. So what do you do when you find out your husband is into porn? We consult three top sex and relationship therapists to find out:

*names changed to protect identities

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