Sora Ma Reveals How Her Son “Sometimes Breaks My Heart”

Motherhood has been actress Sora Ma’s most life-changing role yet. Her son, Skye, arrived via C-section in August 2024 — just two months after her husband’s sudden passing. Overnight, she was launched onto the steep learning curve of parenting, navigating newborn chaos while healing from loss.

Even for someone as composed as Sora, those early months were relentless. Between physical recovery, emotional exhaustion, feeding challenges and sleep deprivation, she had to lean on her “village” — her family, her helper, and close friends — to make it through each day.

Yup, even a glamorous actress isn’t spared from the universal challenges of parenting.

At the recent launch of the new Enfagrow A+ Pro C-Biome, Sora offered a raw and heartfelt look into her first year as a mum — and boy can we relate!

Her C-section experience was a mix of fear, surrender, and gratitude

“I remember lying on the operating table, hearing my baby’s first cry — it was surreal. That sound changed everything. When they placed Skye on me for our first skin-to-skin, I felt an overwhelming rush of love and relief. It wasn’t the birth I imagined, but it became the story that made me a mother.”

Recovery was rough — physically, emotionally, and mentally

“The first few months were tough. I’d see mums on social media taking photos or videos right after giving birth. I couldn’t do that. I thought I looked so fragile and ugly.

Also, breastfeeding was difficult for me because of the pain from the wound. I couldn’t move freely. The pain lingered longer than I expected.

What helped was allowing myself to slow down, accepting help, and being kinder to myself.

My family, my helper, and the love I have for Skye gave me strength to get through each day.

One year later, I feel stronger — not just in my body, but in spirit. And I’m finally back to my workouts.”

She’s in two minds about sending Skye to preschool

“It’s such a big decision. On one hand, I know preschool builds social skills and independence. On the other, I really cherish the time I still get with him at home. I’m considering his readiness, my work schedule, and whether I’m emotionally ready to let him go a little. It’s really about finding the right timing for both of us.”

Skye’s independence sometimes “breaks my heart”

“Skye’s been an independent baby since he was born. He eats well, sleeps well, isn’t fussy, and doesn’t need to be carried around much. So when he gets clingy, I actually enjoy it because it makes me feel needed. But when I’m not home and he’s totally fine without me… that sometimes breaks my heart a little.”

Work-life balance? Still a juggle

“Some days I feel like I’ve got it together; other days I’m just surviving. My helper, Si Yan, has been my co-parenting partner, and my in-laws and mum’s friends give me support whenever I need it. It truly takes a village to raise a child and I’m so grateful for mine.”

Self-care isn’t just about getting more sleep

“Beyond rest, it’s the small rituals that make me feel good. I go for a facial every month, which helps me reset and feel refreshed. I also enjoy quiet moments like journaling, meditating or simply sitting in peace when Skye naps.”

Taking care of myself allows me to show up better for him and for work.

Her gentle reminder to fellow mums

“Don’t be too hard on yourself. We’re not alone. Ask for help from family, friends or healthcare professionals when you need it. Focus on what you can do to give your child the best care and nutrition. A happy and healthy mother is the best gift to your child.”

Looking to grow your mum village? We’ve got you. Join our SWW Village — a safe and supportive space for mums in Singapore to connect, share, and lift one another up. Sign up here.